Every factors are inter-link and inter-related ...
Trust is Earn ... I doubt so is by Cultivating ...
Initially ... I only trust my partner about 50% ....
Having stay with her in Vietnam , know her circle of friends , family members, her village, her lifestyle and etc .. it's up to 70%
After marriage ... 85% ... Now with baby close to 100%
But then if I don't choose to trust her 100%, meaning trust level is not there .. so how to build up the relationship further.
Then if I don't trust her 100% ... how can I ask her to trust me 100% ???
So sometimes this is the problem with we men ... we want our partner to do ABC , but then when in turn the gal ask us to do ABC, we have tons of reasons to tell them why we do not do ... hmmm .. strange
Just by talking and thinking, we won't gain trust ...
I have a friend who marry a vietnam wife .. now he is quite poor thing .. before marry so good, now after marry , everyday also quarrel .. she see yahoo messenger got girls name, she quarrel with him .. delete the contacts in front of her also no use ... what he talk to her , she dun believe, she chose to believe what her friend told her .. and becasue of the difference, they quarrel again ... headache man ...
Sometimes I feel that vietnamese gal is a very strange creature ... They are strong outside but weak inside ... they want love but dun want to tell you ... They believe you but they want to test u .. they can KPKB you BUT you cannot KPKB them ...
Troi Oi .. Troi Oi ..