[relaxguy]

Hi bros
just want to share a post i made a few years ago in 2008... now 2012, much older, and much more unconcerned with what others say...

hope it helps to understand that in the end, its loneliness we are fighting against, not just sex. Sex is just the act that prove to ourselves we are not lonely...


I am in my early 30s, travel alot, married and got kids, however I am also a person that gets lonely(not just the sex) but requires people to go out, spend time, watch movie to love, shopping and also sex. The journey is more important than the destination to me, but of course I always get there. =P

I have many SBs around the region as my job requires me to travel, all I need to do is call and tell them my schedules, they would make arrangements to spend time with me. If yes ok, if no, I call the next one or go hunting.

SBs come and go, but some stay for life. I have a shanghaiese SB who I know before I got married and we still sms every day. too used to it, she said. Now she is married and have kids, still, we get together when we can, to celebrate her birthday or weekend getaway.

Like the Beijing one that will call purely for sex, I will call when i am there and she will call when she is around where I am... no strings, but 100% comfortable when we are together, as if we known for a million years.

My requirements are simple and honest, when I am with them, I am 100% with them. I tell them straight, I am married, have kids, I am not planning on hurting anyone, just hope for someone to spend the night and enjoy the times spent together. No strings attached, we cannot have any future, but for now, you can have 100% of me. I do not give money nor ask for any, but when we go out, I pay for all. My girls are all very understanding, and I do share with them my problems at work, life and other areas. Many also help me, and I really sincerely appreciate them and adore them whenever I can.

My SBs come from all walks of life, from 19 gorgeous PRC girl to 38 korean girl (although she looks 28). Some are Directors, universitiy girls, some sales girls and some are just out from school

I had a PA previously from Yunnan when I was stationed in PRC, almost a double of cecilia cheung, 23 years old fresh out of U 1.7m, firm boobs, who was my SB for almost 1 year. Quite capable, hardworking and very beautiful, very positive, ambitous, can write and speak native english just being exposed to me for few months. Took me for her laogong, wash my clothes, clean my house, sleep, cook shop with me. almost like 2nd wife. The times with her was great, after work go nice dinner with beautiful woman and all man staring, then go nice bar, have some drinks, then back to my apt to raw fuck the daylights out of her... then sometimes, go beach, go movies, or when feeling adventurous bring and fuck her in funny places like meeting room, changing room, movie threatres, beaches and yachts etc.

Everything end when she saw my wife 1 day in my office visiting me (She knows I am married and have kids but she never met them before). Stayed in the toliet and cried for the whole day until my wife ask where my PA is, why not outside at her desk? In the end has to make up a story to tell her I send her on errand, will return as soon as she is done.

Throw me the resignation letter the next day, didnt even handover properly. Thats where I realize that no matter what, women will still fall in love with the man they grow used to, even when they know it is not exclusive. I lost a good helper and in the end learnt never to get too close to them.

Once I feel they start giving gifts and harboring thoughts of 天长地久，　I push them away... brainwash them again... like 2 porcupines trying to make love, better keep a certain distance, otherwise no good ending... at least thats how i managed my balanced life for the past decade...