[jklpoi]

Going to share some of my experiences.

First, my story.
My Ba Xa was a WL, and is still working now as a WL, just to implement and support my income. I told her about my income and how much i earn which is around the average side of what a singaporean should be earning. Around 3k-4k plus? I also told her that i have debts that need repaying and those debts may take me up to 2 years to return. Thats what spur her on to work, and i fully support her as i 100% trust her. (Do not be too quick to judge me on this, hear out the story first.)

She is 7 years older than me and with 2 children, Japanese-Vietnamese mix blood, dammn bloody cute. She is not a looker, very small size, and only A cup breasts, so i can be very sure that i love her not for her looks, but for what she is. Her children is the main reason why she wants to work. She is not that poor in Vietnam too. Her sisters have their own shoe shop, selling shoe, and her mum has lots of kids, and grand kids. A very very close knit family.

I too hear of horror stories of Vietnam ladies asking for money for their families, buy this buy that. But somehow, my ba xa family is very different from typical traditional vietnam family. Its hard to explain, but you have to be there to experience it. Her mum only calls and ask for money for a few things.

1) House rent - SGD200+ every month.
2) Food, clothes, school fees, english school fees, tution school fees for my ba xa 2 kids. - SGD 300-400 every month.

She never even ask for medical fees when she has a genuine case of bad knees. I allow my Ba xa to work because i understand the hardship of living in singapore and she too understand it.

The funny thing is that she will be the one to always find excuse not to work and i will always be the one to chase her away to work. I told her that as long as she can earn around SGD1000-SGD1500 per month is good enough, no need chiong so much.

Its true that Vietnam lady are very loyal once you are really the one for them. They feel you are the one, they will stamp their marking on your forehead and you are forever theirs.

They belong to a generation of "When a problem arises, you fix it and not throw it away." at least my BX belongs to that generation, i dont know about the younger ones.

Money wise, its as what the other bros are saying, educate them and they will learn. I am lucky that my BX already know how tough it is to earn money here.

I am not going to hide what my BS done. Yes, she sleeps with customer, yes, she works here for a long time, she comes in singapore many time. And i am not blind to the fact that maybe she loves me because i am her ticket to working in Singapore.

You can call me "Xiao Bai Nian" Loser boy who feeds on woman earning, but i am more of the open minded kind of person, this is only her job, men touch her, men give money to her, money comes into my pocket. Everybody happy.

but the most important thing is that i know that she loves me deeply. And that's why i marry her.