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Originally Posted by Vanda
Sounds like your case is some other party may be trying to pick up the pieces when both of you seperate. When woman is hurt emotionally, they may look elsewhere for comfort.
I do suggest you TALK TO HER, be open to her problems, and DISCUSS with her rather than trying to get FT or PI or whatever to solve the problem(suspect she cheating). Communication break down is most of the time cause of all problems.
If she does not want to talk to you about it directly, maybe you can initiate a talk with her parents or whom she trust to talk to her. Doing so indirectly can help both of you break the cold ice and get things moving.
No problems are unsolvable, and there is always a solution to every problem. Just only how you going to face it only, and the price to it. It could be something on your part you did wrong, and she is not happy, or it is a build up problem that started quite a long time ago, and now, it explodes.
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I wish problems can be solved by discussion and end up in quarrel and something is very wrong as she is hiding something
\I am trying to salvage this relationship
cannot reach her parents and they are on her side