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Most bros here are luckier than me.

No sex during 6.5 years of dating, fr uni all the way till marriage. At the very least then, i got to paint her and do the usual stuff except sex. Did not get even a decent bj all these while.

Been married for 7 years now and we probably have sex like 26 times annually. Somehow, 2 lovely kids (boys) appear effortlessly. I brand myself a one time shooter. Sex to the wife is about lying there and the husband finishes the pumping job, even though pussy not lubricated. Btw, foreplay like painting not allowed since 2007.

We are financially very stable so its not the daily stuff that causes low sex drive. I suspect it is her upbringing in a traditional singapore chinese family. Even then, i believe her siblings have slightly higher sex drive..i hope...

I do evny bros here who have had at least good sex in the past. At least these are good memories which i will probably never have.

I hope all bros intending to go into a long term r/s or marriage seriously evaluate if the girl is the right one in all aspects. Otherwise, a lifetime of regrets.