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Originally Posted by nacal
Have to agree with bro on this sentence. There are millions of Thai girls who have less money, and are prettier, but they are not in this line...
but i don despise them.. i only despise those who use this chance to KC or cheat or hurt other ppl. No worries.. to me there are millions out there who are worse than whores. At least they don rob or kidnap ppl or cheat ppl of their hard earn money,if they stick to their job strictly lol.
Thai WL sell their dignity, esteem for money.. some for own material gains.. Some to sponsor their bros/sis through universities. So many reasons.. some true some false. How to differentiate? Time..
Bro you have time on your side. Use it.. If she's serious, she will do something abt it. 1 yr, 2 yrs.. take your time to cool down, monitor and then prepare then decide. It's super tough to keep lying for 1-2 yrs and not leave any clues. DON commit anything within this month if possible, thats when u're passionately high!! Be prepared though.. she might give you a lot of pressure like closing a deal.
It's still considered high risk.. either you don take the risk like the bros advised. Or you take it by minimizing risk as much as possible. it's your call, bro, as no one knows it or her more than you yourself.
Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best then.. btw i like thai gers, though i just interact with few of them fr mps/fls in sg/bangkok. Generally i find most of them to be polite and very family oriented. And due to the high demand and thus high pay.. they took this fast & easy path, similar to MLM/prop agents/ FA here..
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Agreed with what you say...no matter what reasons they have, they are doing this for a sideline and even some for years for the money. Even if these girls say they have feelings for you, they still love money more. Surely, u have exceptional cases where its real love and your guy fren lives happily for a damn long time with the WL. But chances are really slim and i wont not invest all my time and money just to get that rare opportunity which maybe you can see only once or twice or not even once in your lifetime.
Dun wanna sound to be realistic, but to safeguard we chiongsters interest here, for most of the time, say 98 percent, treat who you met or what you find in this trade as a partial investment. The KC trap thing is deadly and sometimes they will just lie and not tell u how they really feel.
Thus you wanna find out more about 'her' and u gamble your money and time away for a long period of time. This becomes like a 'permanent' investment gradually. For this case, i think you need to access and observe intentively on 'her'. You may even need to make trips down to her homeland just to convince urself that 'she' is worth it. No matter how nice she can be, chances are back at her hometown, shes not what she seems to be and you get really devastated by the truth....
However, there is no right or wrong in relationships but always remember there is always a higher chance to have a real and solid relationship with a decent normal girl, be it shes a thai, vietnamese or other nationalities.
Personally, having roam the bars of JC and GL to search for the 'vietnam' gem (which some of my friends got it now fortunately) since 2006, I did chanced upon one viet bar girl who i think is worth my permanent investment when i was chionging in geylang here three years ago. But i blew it and regretted when i did not make the trip down to her homeland to find out more about her. She has this ''C'' Cup which i die, shes even drinks my cum after sex(no joke) and she was so attentive to what i say.
When i tell her to talk softly on the phone as she always kinda rude( its viet culture lah i think), she toned down. When i ask her don wear so skimpy dress, she stopped. Super touch but DAMN.... gone liao then come and KPKB, drink beer like mad also no use....
. Lets face it, we guys wanna find a hot wife whos good in bed and good to you in person. She had both quality but i was so cautious as my frens keep warning me they lie alot. And i should have gave her a chance and observe more but of course not blindly just give her money.
If 'she'' really likes you, you can feel it to a certain extent if you alreeady know the effects of KC trap due to your long years of chionging in this trade. For newbies who do not knoe this, then please do not give up the ''forest'' here for this tree.
I know some guys here are desperate for something loving and good in your lives due to your not so solid relationship in your current lives, but learn and experience more in this trade(it takes years man) and then make the 'permanent' investment. Rather than bank on the '1 out of the 50 working gals' who is a true gem for a true relationship( i think now the figures are getting worst thanks to capitalisation and modernisation), Why not just live suavely, sophiscatedly and live like the casanova, treat them well and this 'sexual aka friend friend' relationship can still exist and it boosts your ego and makes you happy still...
However, dont sound to be biased, its really so hard to find a less materialistic and nice girl of the chinese ethnicity, korean and japanese, so i am rooting for the Puyings, spring Rolls, pinoys, Laos, Burmish, Myanmmar in this decade lolx.... The greed for statue and money is so evident......wad to do , haizzz... nice and pretty girls who tend to like you back will never settle for the simple life.
But on the otherhand, i may sound contradicting here, TO hell with that logic. Some of my frens are having that kind of awesome girls who they met in this nightlife scene in their lives now and they are happy, i will never give up on the search for that perfect gem in the nightlife scene and the normal scene....
Dun give up on both scenes, lol... i like consoling myself as i write this LOL... Just hate the sour grapes feeling as i envy my bloody friends with their thai fiancee or vietnam wife to be.......
Oh as always, the inevitable sin that we men always make, we think with our dicks and hearts at all times. Its time to be also brainiac in some situations lol...