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Originally Posted by Absolute
I am thankful that I have chosen to be single after reading all the sexual woes from so many sexually-frustrated married men here.
I have a friend who is in his 40s and his wife is also not interested in sex starting fromat least 10 years ago. But he really loves his wife and respects her choice.
His philosophy is simple: Man can live life meaningfully without sex. Look at monks. As such, he has developed a hobby he is very passionate about - motor cycles. In fact, he told me that he can clean his motorbike for one entire day without even thinking about sex or copulating his wife and other women.
His advice for sexually-frustrated married man is this: don't see sex as a must-have. Without sex, you are even healthier. Divert your mind to something more constructive such as doing charity work or pursuing a hobby. He believes that our mind is able to help you overcome your sexual desire and live a more fulfilling life.
Good luck!
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Sorry Bro Absolute, I have to call BULLSHIT on this one...
Your friend "respect's her choice"? Fuck that bro....your friend is an idiot.
You buy a TV and find out there is no picture so then you just accept it and listen only to the sound? As if......
Look at monks? A monk DECIDED of his own free will to be that way. The pair of tits he married didn't decide it for him!
No frapping way! I explained to my wife like this:
"I did not get married to become a monk. If this is the life you want, that is fine but its not the life I want NOR is it the life we agreed to have...in a church, in front of hundreds of people....you singed a contract called a marriage license. Decisions yours, sex life or divorce."
Your firend needs to have this duiscussion with his headache...I mean his wife.
This bullshit that women fill their heads with that they can just "decide" to not have sex with their husbands? Sorry, fuck that. Divorce.
Cheers,
jim