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Originally Posted by hayhay
If she did have another I won't let her come back again. If she is seeing another just talking I'm ok not bedding
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Let me start from your last sentence first.
I am SO confuse on your statement !
You are already contradicting n confused your ownself ... How can you think properly.
You allowed her to be with someone and you are ok with it ? So strange .. is she not your wife ?
At this stage , when her heart no longer with you, whether she bed or no bed with that someone, its no longer important.
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Originally Posted by hayhay
I have a problem with my wife now, i think I don't understand there culture, and I have this peronoid disorder and I distrust her, making now we are like straighter.
But I keep on thinking she is seeing another guy, but she
Told me she don't have? ( does viet lady, married will see another guy?)
She told me marries is base on trust and I keep on thinking she have another guy?
I know she angry with me, don't go out with me and don't hold hand when we go out, she come home late from work
She told me she did not do anything wrong to me and to my sister,
She say she is confuse now, she want to leave me also cannot, want to stay also cannot
Do you guys think she have another guy or I'm just Perniod?
Now we do talk and go out now.is she coming back to me?
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Yes .. probably u don't understand the cultures ... And guessed you don't understand woman as well .
I cannot and also not up to me to comment / tells you whether she has someone outside. I also believe no one can tell u.
U r the husband ... It's your job to find out the truth and carry out the proper remedy actions.
If u don't trust her, why marry her at the first place ?
Next , what things did she do to make u think that she is having someone outside ? If nothing than u are just plain paranoid.
Next , also think what have you done to her ?
I can tell you straight forward Now ..if you are so f**king paranoid, the day your wife pregnant will be the day this marriage is going to end ! Coz a person like you will sure thinks that the baby is not yours.
If you can trust people here whom you dun meet before and you don't trust a woman u married and you see her everyday ... Something is real wrong with u !
Go think thru everything, dun just come here and seek advice . And please use your brain before exercising advice from the thread.