View Single Post
  #45  
Old 21-08-2012, 04:34 PM
westendgirl's Avatar
westendgirl westendgirl is offline
Samster
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 142
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
My Reputation: Points: 94 / Power: 0
westendgirl deserves a Tiger! - He's a Good Guy
Re: Paranoid: sbf male fb?

Quote:
Originally Posted by littlepok View Post
maybe TS should state her requirement, alot will be queueing up to know her, me inclusive haha. use some filtering requirement so u do not get spammed (got a hunch your PM is bursting liao with messages like)

F the bizman. i let u meet anyone u want, including my little bro
littlepok hahaha some pm la. not considered a deluge of spam. still like to maintain the r/s. he is nice and considerate.

Quote:
Originally Posted by itiswhatitis View Post
ha ha, i didnt do tat lor...............

muhahahahaa.............. didnt tot of it aso.......

but i think by tomolo aftern, tis ll be a 10pages thread.........
that wont happen la. this thread probably had run its course with all the points raised here. i am really grateful for all the postings and pms.

Quote:
Originally Posted by HungHubby View Post
I read 2 pages and no "relationship/martial status" stated?

1. If ya both are single and available, whats the big hooha about bumping into other people or letting them know how/where u meet each other? SBF (though sexually) is just another online networking platform. If ya aint comfortable, then say HWZ?

2. Even if ya both fbs/fwbs, u both outta give each other alittle freedom and space. Dun really see why ya cant have friends of the opposite gender as long as nothing sexually is being involved.

2. If he's already taken, he's obviously afraid to let his other half find out? Then again, among his own group of friends/associates etc, most businessmen that I know of are pretty open about having another mistress/fwb/fb and not be afraid to be seen with them, its like having the luxury of an extra "toy" and a sign that they are already "up there".
just say our r/s is complicated. whatever it is, it will not lead to marriage. it is just a temporary arrangement that both of us are comfortable with. only this little issue...

Quote:
Originally Posted by <<totally>> View Post
This thread now a bit 1-side. Maybe bizman go get a clone , find a friend to help you and clear the air before you lose that someone special if she really is to you.

But I will not use a clone and a friend to say on behalf. A nick is nothing as to compared with a person that really mean something. Be a man and if you did say things wrongly, just apologies.

I'm neutral but want to see things coming from 2 sides to be fair for both parties.
bro, i asked him not to. i dont want to polarise the forum with my little problem. he can read and talk to me. anyway, raising firework here is the last thing he has on his mind...
__________________
love poems, outdoor & solitaire

"a FB is what is left of a lover, after the love had been extracted"