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Originally Posted by I.m.Jim
TS, please note the below and it only applies to FB relationships.
In SBF, majority of the guys are married or attached. Many fear being recognized and exposure.
He is insecure about you meeting more samsters. FBs are hard to find, and he is afraid you will find someone more to your own liking and dump him.
Third, which was mentioned and I agree that theres a possibility. He might be a lao jiao under false pretense.
Did you do RAW with him, if so once a man tasted the golden fruit. He wants it all for himself, he will become very obsessed.
FBs should not control each other unless the relationship is ready for another step forward. If he don't want to meet others fine, but he has no right to forbid you to. UNLESS you are his rightful GF!
Correct his mindset of what FBs are all about please.
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no raw la. we r grown up and responsible ppl.
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Originally Posted by BLseven
actually to me as a fair minded libra, relationship with female other then your official wife is simple : only ask and demand in equal amount what you are prepared and able to give to others!
eg: if you can only meet certain amount of time in a week, then cannot ask that others days your girl cannot go out on her own with her friends. if you are not financially able to totally provide for the girl's monthly luxury expenses, then you have no right to even stop her from earning thru whatever means possible for her like ktv or fl.
and if i can't promise to marry the girl, i must be ready for the day when she will leave when she found somebody who's good to her and can marry her.
that's how i had conducted my fb/lover affairs for the past 10years with all happy endings, lucky me 
in relation to you case sis, it's his right not to want to join in gatherings of yours with others but its also your right to want to have outings with them. every relationship have ironing to be done for a deeper understanding one la, even in fb and lovers and whatever, unless its very commercial base like sugar daddy arrangement.
wish you have happiness with whomever u meet and chose |
thanks for the sincere wishes. u r rite, guess gathering and clubbing is not everyone's cup of tea. will remember that.
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Originally Posted by mi.chi.eru
Another scenario:
He could be having multiple nicks and afraid that he would be discovered.
Let's just say that there are the good the bad and the ugly when you meet up with people.
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this point is new. but dont think he will reveal his other identities or nicks. i can respect that, no issue...