[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by greener

Hi All,

I have a matter of the heart to discuss.

I fell in love with a vietnamese WL. As per golden rule, never fall in love with WL. I have fell for her nevertheless.

I knew her for 2.5 months now. Below is a profile write up

- her first time working as WL
- She is 19
- Reason for working is to pay off medical bill for her family
- She fell in love with me and will not want to continue in this
- She would like to start a family with me
- Her family already heard about me
- back in vn she is working as a clothes seller
- she never had a bf as she mentioned that her parents are strict

she doesn't ask me for money to send home. Only occasionally she ask me to help her top up her sim card to call home.

We have been communicating via sms and also talk on phone daily. There were friction and we sort of weathered thru the arguements.

I am asking for some advice on the following

1) Is it best to just end this despite genuinely feeling that we are both in love ? Or should I give it a try ?

2) I am still unsure about the huge leap of a cross national relationship/marraige. I need advise on how difficult/easy it is for a vn bride to incorporate into the life here and if they are hardy enough to weather thru long periods not away from their homeland. I am just worried that everything becomes so "home-longing" centric where she is putting her heart more at waiting for the next trip back to visit her parents than on focusing on our relationship/marraige.

3) I am 30 year old. She is 19 year old. Age is no barrier some say. But I would like to collect some opinion from the floor.

Thanks.

Regards

All the things u said above, it has been written in a little booklet called "de day dai dai cau ca to to!" (DDDDCCTT)

This book has caught attention of some of the WL and its spreading like a cult. Followers of this cult will read this book and act accordingly to what their grandmaster recommends, and the grandmaster's advices has been extremely consistent all these while and seldom differs in any way.

So as a result, many brothers here whom have encountered such followers, share similar stories... many fall prey and later regret... however a small group of Rebels is holding strong still, with their Anti-DDDDCCTT skills, more popularly known as KCIE (KC with Internal Energy) skills... we have a couple of such renowned Rebels contributing actively to this thread... seek them out and buy the kopi and meet face to face to learn more is better...and be humbled by their war stories....

and may the force be with you..... nano nano....

Anyway, ur nick really suits you very well!