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Originally Posted by bernardlee
No choice, Singapore women are not a good wife material when it comes to sex. These women have to manage stressful work, take care of the children, do housework. As a hubby, I did my part to do housework. When my wife back from work, she still need to check her corporate email and join teleconference. Singapore women are very competitive, and are given equal opportunity to hold high positions in the companies. And when it comes to work, they are very serious and on the balls.
Government should know this is one of the root cause why local birth rate is always on the losing end. Something is very wrong in the education and the way women are brought up in this country.So think carefully before you married a Singapore woman.
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Yes, its caveat emptor !!...buyers beware !
..guys, do ur background checks on her (tis applies the other way round too)...test her waters n be VERY, VERY SURE b4 u sink urself down esp on a SG woman...
Make sure u r both compatible in ALL ASPECTS of life particularly on CHARACTER & SEX, tat u both see ALL THINGS eye to eye b4 walking down tat aisle wif "ur folks n mine happy n smiling"...be forewarned tat many women 2day hv a lot of pride n self righteousness abt themselves due understandably to women emancipation n liberation n their claims for equal rights in all things tat happened yrs ago.. n so, rightly or wrongly, they may be even more vicious n ferocious than the guys like the example of the wife in the murder n suicide case last Nov..
Truths, we all know r NEVER pleasant n ALWAYS HURT
, n if truth be told, majority of women r best known for being very sensitive and unforgivable pple, whilst the guys r usually more happy go lucky...Once they r hurt, they make up their minds pretty fast as seen in so many divorce cases...n no amt of pleading n apologies however sincere can ever get into their hearts or their heads ...last stats showed 64% of divorce cases were initiated by women !! ...so guys pls beware n take note, never offend them in any way for ur own goodness sake...
Perhaps to help in marital or even other r/s conflicts, there shd be some kind of education programme (refer to the last highlighted para quoted abv) frm sec schs onwards tat teaches gals wat kinda behaviour n likely problems they can expect frm the guys when getting into r/s such as these n vice versa... n how they shd each respond to the other in the most calm n constructive manner in a misunderstanding, rather than the destructive one of simply pulling out all the STOPS as the easiest way out of their problems. Learning how to forgive others is the 1st step to be forgiven themselves for the long term survival of r/s...jus my 3 cents worth of tots...