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Old 28-09-2012, 11:11 PM
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Re: Wife & Sex - going through the motion

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Originally Posted by Rickey View Post
Another well written a/c of the problem wif the wives of SG ...Tks bro for ur sharing, help n input on tis subject...

We all basically hv the same thinking...Some clarifications here will make it clearer...Wat is meant here is tat all chances for a reconciliation must be tried 1st b4 declaring DIVORCE...i/o being trigger-happy n pressing the panic button straight away...after all tis is a serious matter tat can hv widespread repercussions for either one or even both parties n their families

Yes, wats meant here too is tat when ALL ELSE FAILING, we shd all go for the DIVORCE w/o further ado...but NEVER EVER get into another marriage which most likely wld be similar or worst than the previous one. Women are generally NOT EASY creatures to handle, they are v. sensitive, get angry easily over little, little things n refuse to accept explanations n apologies however sincere they are..after things hv happened...

Most divorcees DO NOT or cannot get married again prolly due mainly to the low trust level of the genders towards each other...once bitten twice shy kinda thingy ...n considering the additional stigma of divorce & the baggage to be inherited by the next party..

Fully agree, bro, ...As hv been pointed out TIME CHANGES THINGS & PEOPLE...their character, their thinking esp women...wat they tell u ytd, might not even hold true TODAY (imagine !...just by a single day !!) ..pple can change their minds v. fast over any small matter...friendships r made n broken in an instant ...yes, they can literally change their minds in a SECOND if they feel like it...sigh...tats why life is not only short but v. fragile too, we never know n never can be sure of wat will hold for us tomorrow...so we cannot take it for granted tat wif the joy n happiness we now hv, we can live happily ever after...we hv to treasure every good moment we hv n PRAY to our Gods whoever we perceive Him to be for HIs continued blessings...every new day brings forth new situations n challenges tat either makes us or BREAKS us..life, bros n sis is full of twists n turns...for those who are so sure of life n wats in store for them, THINK AGAIN !...i wish them all the very best
Now, this I agree with bro...

Yes, I'm not saying divorce first talk later...but in most of the cases that others have brought up...they have talked and discussed and begged...to no improvemnet..

If a wife can fall asleep while a bro is painting her...didn't even have the courtesy to say...not tonight honey...but simply bo chup and ignore...then it is quite serious already...

I cannot make decisions for everyone obviously...but I just wish all the bros suffering this can stand up to their spouse...say enough is enough...we either play nice and be an actual married couple...or we go our seperate ways...

There is no real point in making her pretend to want sex...it will lasts for 5 minutes and you will be back to where you started from...

The whole mindset and focus of the relationship has to be shifted...the husband MUST be first in a wife's life, before the children and her career. She did not make a vow to the children or her boss...she made a vow to you...so tell her that and fully expect her to keep to it.

Power to all the bros!!
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