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Originally Posted by queeniegal

Gals will feel stress ESP with kids, house chorus and also work stress.

As gal we feel like a salves ha if we are being request and used in many ways. Gals will feel unfair. But point to make is that lots of ladies (wife) does not understand if you don't feed your hubby he sure eat else where.

Guys don't push your wife away by just giving signal u want sex!
Ha..
Show her some affection, like morning give her a kiss on your lips.
Telling her she look great in her office wear. Or in her slping position.

Come back early help out with her on the kids, but not one time then expect your sex life to be spice up.

Tuck in kids on bed early or leave to maid. Do housework together.. After done can tell her how tiring for you. Show her you understand her PAIN!!!

Cuddle on sofa while watching tv programs relaxing.. Don't have to go on further.

Go for stroll..have some talks understand her work stress and u can tell her what u are facing too... Show her your concern your love.

Rekindle your love so will have your sex life back..

Ehh I don't cfm it work.. Just that I think it works afterall ha I'm single and not married so I think if my hubby or Bf does that I sure melt.

Good luck!

Sorry to say, this won't work...at least not to the level that you think...

Many people have tried...but unless she quits her job and stay home full time...she won't put the hubby as the top priority...many bros will tell you that...some even with stay home wives and they are not getting any...

Let's say 60% of husbands feel this way...then they all try the counselling method or your method...may work for 10-20%...the remaining 40-50% still lan lan...

Just read the SMS reply from bro bernardlee's wife (quoted in my above post)...

it is sad...but it is what it is...

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