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Re: Wife & Sex - going through the motion
I think its quite common in relationships
the passion dies, we break into routine.
From a daily sex routine, to a weekly, then monthly, the bi monthly, etc...
We just have too much on our minds to think of sex with those we have
serious relationships with
Although I dont advocate this, but finding some external release, or self
release has helped me. If its lust its easy to fix.
Its easy to turn bitter when we feel the other person has rejected us. In a
serious relationship, lack of intimacy can mean lack of love, well emotionally it can feel that way, and leading to suspicions.
I remember one ex saying, you mean if I dont have sex with you means I
dont love you? What do you treat me as(FL/WL). She just didnt get it.
We all have choices, paid sex or ONS, because we want love, we go to the one who swore to love us.
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The Best Way to overcome heart break is in the arms of another. You focus on making money, you get girls, you focus on your body, you get sex, you focus on the girl, you get NOTHING but heartache and disappointment
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