[queeniegal]

Guys is use sex to show and reconcile their love whereas Gals like to use words and emotional on it.

Hence, gals no matter wife or gf even normal friends they want attention ha..

Wife or Gf prefer affection, caring, patient and understanding partner then to have a guy just want sex.

BUT guys also can bonk any gal without Love but gals can't let a guy bonk without falling in love with that person.

Sparks and love will die down due to daily issues and stress and duration...
Therefore marriage require lot of understanding, communications, trust and many more (to be fill up by married guys)

If a gal/wife keep talking to you, u might feel irritating but u don't say however your action show gals/wife can feel it.
So when you want sex, they feel you might not even understand her need but just to have your own pleasure of course is a turn off to a gal or wifey.

Ask yourself (guy) how long have you seriously sit down and listen to what your wife whining or complains she said? Or really put your heart to understand her needs? Or did you tell her your stress your problems? What u going thru.. What u facing?

Gals are very sensitive, they don't mind be a listening ear but guys always tend to hide everything but is better to communicate well with each other.

Some wife I know they really not into bedroom stuff but why some before marriage having wonderful time but after marriage things change??

Think thru look back what really went wrong.

Bear with my lousy English! I'm freaking sleep liao night!