[Tomthefucker]

no use one lah, whatever u want hint also kena bounce back.

if i bring up the issue of sex, first thing she will say is accuse me of not being understanding. That sex is the only thing is my mind and i am being unfair to her by harping on it.

Of cos i will harp on this, because wtf is a marriage for if husband and wife dont have sexual initmacy. The relationship is more normal than friendship or tenant/landlord relationship.

And we are like a monk, or a widower, and worst still DIY ourselves. Freakin pathetic a married man who needs to kill his own urge in such manner. Only those in this plight will understand what i am saying.

And, if we cheat outside (caused by neglect from our wife), we become the guilty party and her the victim. Any way we still lose out.