[callmebad]

men wants to be physical
for women, they are more about the feelings and emotions
women want emotional intimacy or closeness before they want sex
when women say,let's talk first, they really mean in, not just playing hard to get

women want you to talk to them, share their feelings and share yours with her

if you don't have the patience for this, will be quite tough

when she is not receptive to sex, must look to see where her problems lies, any unhappiness, is she stress, etc

if you want her to solve your problem (sex), you must solve hers first, if not,things will just get stuck there

most of us when after marriage, tend to take for granted for each other, we no longer behave as if like in dating days, try to go all out of our ways to please and impress each other

women crave romance and romance should not end after marriage

be romantic and give her pleasant surprises, treat her nice and lovingly at all times, not just for the sake of sex, and she will give in to you without you asking for it

this is the way , most women's mind work, we can't change them
if men want sex, you have to 'play their mind' game, if not, will be quite tough, end up with you begging, is quite bad