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Originally Posted by queeniegal

Hmmm.. Maybe those fb (married) their hubby are having their own fun or unable to provide the sexual life they want?

No arguements from me there...but we are not talking about moral judgement here...just what is fair to a husband when he needs sex...especially those who are trying their best not to have fun outside of the marriage...

I have a Gf she complained to me that her Bf does not touch her for few months. She is so jam and upset.

I ask her talk to the guy, indeed she did. Her Bf said he is too stress up with work and NO mood for intimacy.

So here all are talking abt gal don't give what abt guy who don't give?

At least she can still decide not to marry him.

The problem here is when sex was on free flow before marriage, then completely stops after...it is a shock to the system...like buying something but it does not operate as advertised...yet cannot return, refund and worst...cannot buy or even try out another one...

If a person has a very low on sex drive and the gf/bf still decides to marry...then at least the mind is prepared for not much sex after marriage...but if plenty of sex before, then goes to zero after...how to take it?

Here shd hv inputs from those happily marriage or attached (health sex life) guys and ladies...

Hahahaha...cute that you ask...

I don't think there are many happily married couples in this forum. I am sure there are some, but the sample size will be so small that to catch them here is very unlikely.

In any case, they will not relate to this problem since they are 'happily married' yes? They will come up with, see a counsellor, get help, talk to someone...blah blah blah...not real personal experience...
I have spoken to women who enjoy sex and are happily married...they cannot imagine not having sex with their husbands, even for a week. How would they relate to this problem?

Even you are trying to understand this because you have not been in this situation before...

Ask your girlfriend, the one not getting sex...ask her how she will behave and say if that is her life for the next 20-30 years...and must assume she cannot/doesn't want to eat outside...just have a husband and no sex...listen to her answer and maybe you will have an understanding of what is going on here.


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