[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by bernardlee

Thank you Bro Wizrd! I managed to have sex with my wife finally.

It is the second sexual encounter in the last 5 years. Ya, it is very pathetic.

The plan of "telling my wife that I will be finding my own way to release myself outside" woke her up.

But after the ML (dead fish type), few days later she complained sick, blaming me that I am full of virus. WTF! I am good and healthy.

Not looking good now ... back to dry run again. Sian

Good job bro...

At least the first step of the plan worked...

Now, do not let her stick to her conditions...otherwise, your next sex will be in 5 years' time again...tell her you wish to follow a schedule of at least 2-3 times a week. Work out convenient times for the both of you...

If she refuses...then tell her this: "I love you very much but we have already talked about the sexual needs of a man. If you really do not want to make love to me, then I shall respect your wishes. However, please respect my wish to have sex 3 times a week. Like we discussed, if it is not with you, then I want your agreement that I can have sex with other women. I give you two choices to choose from: either I only have sex with the same woman all the time, or I have sex with different women everytime. You choose."

Then sit back and wait for her answer. Do not allow her to change the subject to blame this blame that...press for an answer...I believe, 90% of the time, she will choose to have sex with you...

I hope you realise that it will not last. She will slowly cut back and eventually you will be back to square one.

But...what you have done is sown the seed...the seed of you having sex with other women should she not fulfill her side of the agreement...and you can bring this up if she cuts sex back again to less than 2 times a week.

I know it's tough bro...to be harsh on the woman you love...but tough love is required here or you will lose your mind eventually...instead of love, all you will have is resentment of her...and that is much worse...

Good luck bro...don't give up now....jia you!!!


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