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Originally Posted by Wizrd
Hi sis,
Please tell us why you dread sex with your husband. Maybe knowing why can help all the bros here figure out how to talk to their wives...
Please do not just say dread....give us your thought process, the emotions you felt and the logic you used to avoid sex...
If you need to, have a conversation with me so I can ask you one question at a time...either here or through pm...might be easier than just writing an essay about it. Nevertheless sis, it will help a few of the bros here...
Thanks in advance...
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Dread sex with previous bf. just not comfortable. The ex bf just interested in sticking in, pump, cum n that's it. No tots about getting me already n aroused. Anyway, maybe I was young back then. Felt used.
My hubby (now) dotes me a lot, to the point I think I am spoiled. He does most of the housework, cooks and even sent the kids to school in the morning, allowing me to sleep till whatever time I want, we do not employ domestic helper. I felt respect, loved n treasured. (How many husband does that? I dunno)
So woman do need to have emotional to have sex, but to actively participate in the act, really depends on how comfortable she is with her own body.
I allowed my hubby to examine me everywhere and anywhere, cos he has somewhat 'trained' me to relax n let him explore to his heart content. I used to reject sex toys too, but now I am showing him where to place to better stimulate me. Initially, i wasn't comfortable to let him explore everywhere like I am a laboratory rat by simply laying on our bed and spreading wide for him machiam like see gynae like that.