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Originally Posted by mentosmint

Dread sex with previous bf. just not comfortable. The ex bf just interested in sticking in, pump, cum n that's it. No tots about getting me already n aroused. Anyway, maybe I was young back then. Felt used.

My hubby (now) dotes me a lot, to the point I think I am spoiled. He does most of the housework, cooks and even sent the kids to school in the morning, allowing me to sleep till whatever time I want, we do not employ domestic helper. I felt respect, loved n treasured. (How many husband does that? I dunno)

So woman do need to have emotional to have sex, but to actively participate in the act, really depends on how comfortable she is with her own body.

I allowed my hubby to examine me everywhere and anywhere, cos he has somewhat 'trained' me to relax n let him explore to his heart content. I used to reject sex toys too, but now I am showing him where to place to better stimulate me. Initially, i wasn't comfortable to let him explore everywhere like I am a laboratory rat by simply laying on our bed and spreading wide for him machiam like see gynae like that.

Oh, so it is with a different man...

It won't help here because the bros here do not want to change partners...yet.

Thanks anyway...


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