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Originally Posted by Wizrd
Good job bro...
At least the first step of the plan worked...
Now, do not let her stick to her conditions...otherwise, your next sex will be in 5 years' time again...tell her you wish to follow a schedule of at least 2-3 times a week. Work out convenient times for the both of you...
If she refuses...then tell her this: "I love you very much but we have already talked about the sexual needs of a man. If you really do not want to make love to me, then I shall respect your wishes. However, please respect my wish to have sex 3 times a week. Like we discussed, if it is not with you, then I want your agreement that I can have sex with other women. I give you two choices to choose from: either I only have sex with the same woman all the time, or I have sex with different women everytime. You choose.".
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Bro, this won't work.
You're treating her like she's a guy, she isn't, she's a woman so you can forget using logic, that doesn't work. But the MAJOR flaw in this line of attack is the ultimatum, that never works. If you back someone into a corner, they will fight back. I'd advise against that.
Counselling is best because it immediately disarms her defences. In her mind, if all you thought about was sex, you'd just get a mistress but you didn't, you went to see a cousellour. In a really strange way, many women see that as being romantic because it means you want to save the marriage. Look at it from a practical perspective, the family court will make you go to a counsellor if you sue for divorce so get it out of the way.
Just my thoughts.
Cheers,
jim