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Originally Posted by Wizrd;7$$$$46
Thanks Jim....
It does not always work for 'smart' women to hear a professional tell her that she should have sex with the husband...the fact that the husband found this counsellor will stink to high heavens to her...now she will feel humiliated that her husband will 'gang up' with an outsider, another woman no less, to 'talk down' to her about neglecting her duties. (a male counsellor is worse, because what does he know about being a wife?)
Maybe it worked for you, bro...but I reckon it will backfire more often than it works...unless...the wife is the one who finds the counsellor...then the chance of success is higher...however...she doesn't think she has a problem so she won't go looking for one...END OF YOUR PLAN!!!
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Yes I can't agreed more with bro Wizrd on the highlighted portion. I tried the same thing with my oc too, honestly I was going through a real rough patch needed someone to talk but seems like ironically my oc was the last person i could have a heart to heart talk...end up i have a female confidante (if you reading this you know who you are)...i was actually going through a bout of depression, really a lack of active sex life can really makes you feel depress...i told oc i was confiding in someone about our problem..she hit the roof and felt so insulted, that an outsider has to come and teach us how to run our lives...i suggested to her to talk to this female confidante of mine, perhaps as women they can relate to each other...i can only say the whole matter left a bad taste behind...true be told, not every woman wants to be told how to be "real" woman....
