[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by analog

Bro Frankie:

You have some choices to make. I feel for you, I was at the cliff's edge about 18 months ago and did what I did and I'm still married and things are MUCH-MUCH better.

Once you reach the end of your rope, you'll konw what to do.

In general, if a womand detects weakness in you she won't respect you.

Wishing you the best bro.

Cheers,
Jim

Yes bro Frankie...I agree with bro Jim here...

It's is exactly what I said before...once a man has stared divorce in the face and feel no fear...then he is ready to seriously talk to the wife, and 'force her hand' with what you deem reasonable in your marriage...and from there, the marriage can be revitalised or be pronounced dead.

Either ways is better than being stuck in limbo with no end in sight.

Bro Jim and I come from differing sides but I believe we both understand what is at stake and the end game if we want our spouse to really communicate with us and take our views seriously.

Best of luck bro...

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