[purple001]

Hey hey, chill bros out there. Understand yr frustrations, and reasons why you guys just have to comment. Nothing wrong with them ive noted yr points. Maybe I've been thru a not so happy marriage (obviously, if not then why divorce right), but I have less intention of defending my pov. I mean, I can emphatise with the part on the lack of frequent sex which it is supposingly a human need. I don't deny that, but have u even really understand why.? Why the diff before n after marriage.? Could it be something men need to reflect on as well ? Maybe u are equally less attractive now? Or because u r not as sweet n caring towards for wifey now ? It works both ways right anot ? In fact, I've many married frens who shared abt how their hubbies changed aft marriage too. of cos, I must also say that it's not entirely one party's fault. That's why, something u guys need figure out too. I have couple of married guys frens too, they do tell me abt such stuff and yes, I can somehow related to their frustrations and how they were deprived of what they need.


Back to my point of counselling- my point still stands. Not that I am against counselling, but how many of the relationships actually improved after that. Sure there will be successful cases that ends happily ever after. But still there are many divorce case ard mah. The morale is- u do what u deem fit. Only u know yr wife, her character etc so that u can anticipate her response more accurately after yr so called ultimatum. If unsure, don't follow blindly.

Disclaimer- this is only my person pov. It does not apply to all female species. In case, I kena shoot again. (-_-)"

Ps- I am younger than many bros here (I think). I haven't even reach mid 30s leh, so don't address me as madam ( I know, I know, it's a form of respect or just a way of address etc)

谢谢..!