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Originally Posted by greener
Hi All,
I need advice from the bigger community here.
I know a vietnamese lady for 6 months now. I have visited her and her family 2 times now. She is asking to get married soon. I would like to get some opinions here on how i can deal with this dilemma i am in .
Thanks all and look forward to yout inputs.
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1. You have gotten very good comments from Bro hurricane ...
2. Whether anot to marry this gal fast or slow is entire depends on you coz ONLY you know and undertand her.
Whether she is a country side gal, city gal, GROs, WL or FL ... know YOU know she is worth marrying.
Time is NO barrier , Age is NO barrier, Race / Ethnics are NO barriers. The ONLY barriers is you n her. Good Comuunications n Actions are an Important criterias n you need to set it right .
3. I have said before in my post , how open is the vn gal in Singapore does not equate that she is open in Vietnam. They are still very traditional in vn. So gal will not bring a guy back just for fun.
So thanks to your posting, I guess many can now know n understand why ? So if u dun loved the gal n no intention to marry the gal, pls dun ruin her n her family.
4. Ask yourself these questions :
A. How much do you know about her, her family, her place she lived in?
B. How long have you into vn n how much do you understand about Vn cultures, thinking, lifestyle, habits?
C. How much time can you set aside to fly there n stay there n understand item (B)? You dun learn just by learning from the thread here.
D. Have she met your parents? Have she interact with your parents?
E. Are you prepared to lived with a gal you have just know for 6 mths.
F. R u Ready for any expected things ?
G. Last but not least, ant expectations from her that she must get PR, LTVP n etc to work ?
5. All answers are within yourself, if u can sort it out, u can find your own answer.
I cannot give u answers for your posting because ONLY you know ... Gals are different, their family are different, even your thinking are different ... There is not Right or Wrong decision BUT the Best Decision to counter the current situation.
Rgds.