no problem, but is good you get came here to ask for advise because the bros here have a better understanding and knowledge of vietnamese culture and life partner. Indeed each and everyone have different views but majority of the insight we have is about the same. Especially getting a WL to be a wife, i am glad that you use your head to think and take things slowly, for a village girl is an honour to marry a foreign hubby. I am still a junior here, as i start to hook up in this thread coming to half a year only. What i share is based on my personal experiences

those seniors here have years of experiences to share.