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Originally Posted by Golden question
Did the man do enough to 'protect' himself from getting cheated?
Did the man understand more about her before marry?
Did the man know the pro/con especially for marry a vietnamese?
Did the man take care of her especially her feeling after marry or just want to marry 1 for sex or just for companion?
Did the man learn more about vietnamese culture or just think after marry everything will be smooth?
The list go longer and longer
Pls for all SG man,ask yourself all this before u blame your vietnamese spouse.There is always good and bad apple but nobody force u to buy,u can choose to wait and see whether got good one next time or not.
Dont ever think young,pretty with hot figure,peel for u prawn shells,call u ox,say she miss u,etc etc etc etc and think marry is an easy thing.
Is never never easy and much much more tough than dating
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Agree with Golden
Like me, I had one BX Chua which I intended to marry but unfortunately, she make me too disappointed. Too possesive. Everywhere I go, must check. I admit i do flirt around once in while but that was just flirting. I didnt do any wrong behind her back until one day I was so pissed of with her. I taught her how to use Facebook and yahoo messenger. She went to the extend and msg to all my friend in facebook. Asking who are they related to me. Some of them are even her friends. I got fed up and didnt want to her for a while and she kept calling me during my office hours and night. In the end, I got warning letter from the company and finally got sacked by the management due to too many calls during my working time.
I break off with her saying that I had some others VB outside and saying that I cant tolerate anymore. Today, I still love her in my heart but i still cant forget what she did to me.
Understanding them is very important and you also need them to understand you too. If not there are too many problems and arguement in the future.
There are still many good VB which I had seen but there are also many bad VB too.
I had one em gai went out with a one of her new customer. Thinking that the customer is reliable, went to hotel overnight. The next day when my em gai wanna to go home and ask him for money, the customer told her that he dont feel shiok to pay and threathen her to report to police. My em gai was so scared that he ran away without taking her shoe.
Another story which I heard from my ex. One of her friends went hotel with one customer, in the end, the VB got drug by the customers and all her belonging like bag, passport, walllet is all missing. Wake up without any $ and had to ask for help from her sisters to bring her back cos the hotel ask her to up as she oversleep for 2 hours.