Hi bro,
your situation reminds me of my girlfriend when I was very much younger. Her phobia of petting was so severe that her vagina literally snap even with the insertion of my finger.....
She doesn't like intimacy and blames me for wanting to be close and for being horny.... wat the hell?? I was a young teenager with raging hormones at that point in time... so it was a really agonizing....
The relationship didnt work out eventually as there was no chemistry in the intimacy department....
So my advice is to bring your wife to see a doc/ psychiatrist... the prob could be more of psychological (fear of sex) than physical...
PEACE!!
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Originally Posted by retief
Mine is similar
Married for a year.wife complained sex is painful each time and she is now become phobic towards each.
We never really talked about it until recently and she now says she have no more feelings towards me. So much so that she is resentful towards me and not letting me touch her.
She thinks that touching petting her will lead to sex and this is causing her distress.
At present, she is not talking to me and wants time off for herself. She even thought of the worst scenario- divorce,
I am badly affected and I think I am getting a bit depressed.
I am hoping one day she will thought through it and be ready to talk.
We are both young and no kids...
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