Re: Wife & Sex - going through the motion
So sorry 2 hear bros facing probs w wives. Can only blame asian mindset, kids are the focus once they come into ur lives. Dinner dates, anniversaries forgotten, no longer impt.
My humble suggestion 2 bros here is 2 talk it out w ur wives.
I m very grateful 2 hv a v understanding partner who stood by me even tho I Tao Chiak outside & got caught multiple times. She also realised while trying 2 build her career, she neglected me.
We worked things out but sex life also not great 4 last 5 years until recently we talked abt it & face problem head on. We managed 2 resolve our issues & I was surprised when she said she will gladly pay 4 sex toy I wanted 2 get 4 her instead. Even chose the set together online. I told her I 1 our sex life 2 be like when we were first dating, she got the hint.
So 2 all bros, it can be done. Just be hopeful! I wish u all the best of luck.
P/S: I'm not a guy, but I'm just sharing my views and experience, hoping bros here can get some encouragement.
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