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Originally Posted by purple001

Deep in my heart I'll prob be think- damn, I've spend x years of my youth with u, bore u kids, take care of u and the house etc, and all u can think of its just sex ??? Likely it will make me angrier and felt so unappreciated. Yep, it's part and parcel of marriage life, I do not deny that. But this can only happen if my mind is willing., and i am ready.

tat's the problem....

most girls think tis way " I spend x years of my youth with u, I bore u kids, I take care of u and I take care of the house etc....", "if my mind is willing., and i am ready...."

as if we husband do nothing except wanting to fuck our wives everyday.... and we have to stand by the bed with our cock hard and ready every nite, waiting for our wives to be "willing and ready"....

i do agree it is a "2-way" thing, and i mean "TWO-way"....

we do understand tat bearing a kid is not easy, but we can't just say "darling, leave it to me, let me do it....."

they have to realise and accept tat man n women r different, our needs are "more physical" and we need some sort of release regularly...

i guess most guys won't mind if our wives sometimes just give us a quickie or blowjob or handjob when there is no much time, too tired or watever reasons which do allow a "full course" of love making...