[QUOTE=notti4u;8350033]Had to do most of the housework, washing, ironing, hang the kids clothes, pack their bags for school, clean their backside after they poo-ing... you name it, i do it. for her, she just take care of the kids well being which I also do but she mentioned she did more than me???
Wah lap, exactly the same thing happened to me. Wife do a bit cry father cry mother liao.
Actually altho I mentioned sexless, or rather unhappy sex, tat is not the main point only. Like i mentioned earlier, she never showed the love, does not treat my family tat well, when i financially down borrowed less small sum only she SO unwilling. It IS BORROW, not to ask her to give. Because of this i was so disappointed. Shouldn't partner stand by one another in times of difficulties? Nw 3 yrs like tat liao, 10 yrs later?
I just dont feel the "husband" treatment tat i shld get.
I bet even best buddies will show more concern.
I feel tat problematic kids arises when both partner hate each other until one side lacks the concern. Like fight over custody and stop the other frm visiting and stuff like tat. I think if even if both parties want go separate, best is to talk and conclude both can visit anytime, and go out together during weekends, despite not living together. Guess this is the best we can do