[lightweaver]

Been with my sg ch wife for 14 yrs since we were 20 and married for the past 6. We made an active choice not to hv kids.

We hv our fair share of hi and lows but one lesson tat stayed true til now is never "consider divorce". Both parties hv to b committed to tat. Make it work somehow.

I can't claim to hv any solution but I hope to offer my 2cents on "rewalking" ur journey.

Option 1
Take a cruise. Just the 2 of u. No phones, no kids. Just u 2. Sometimes SG life and family commitment just takes the romance out of everything. Do things together. Even things u won't normally do. Eg line dancing etc. see how u both feel after the trip. If nothing is there even with just both of u, then perhaps the problem lies deeper aka not facing certains truths. On the other hand, u may realize "us" still exists. Congrats. Make active changes to ur life.

Option 2
"Ignore til it's becomes painless".

This is extreme. If being together doesn't revive the spark, perhaps ignoring ea other is best. Start with 2 wks. Hopefully the other party queries. If not another. This will allow both parties to realize u dun "miss" ea other.

Just my 2 cents. I'm a freelance wedding photog and it's a blessing to partake in couple's wedding vows. There is so much love and hope. If ever u feel down, take a look at ur wedding photos. Remember those moments and how u got here where u are. Sometimes we just lose our way. God bless to the bros here