As for me, I have tried so many ways to salvage my marriage, example : Go holidays without childrens following, go out dating after children slept, heart to heart talk, etc....
It never worked !
So now i have made up my mind, i only live for my children...She is not in this equation anymore. I felt cheated the moment i marrys her.
Now i just make myself very happy bonking any kind of ladies i want, then go home be a nice father, there is no need to be a nice husband anymore.
My marriage really sucks big time !
The followings realities are what i have suck up all these years:
1) Buy a car for wife to use : you dont get to fuck her
2) buy and stay in condo : you still dont get to fuck her
3) Go expensive holidays with kids : you dont get to fuck her
3) Go expensive holidays without kids : She shopped till drop, too tired, she wont allow you to fuck her.
4) etc....still dont get to fuck her
On the other end...
1) If you willing to buy a car for fb, you will get alot of fb queueing up...
2) rent a condo for fb/girlfriend...They let you screw her anytime of the day, 24/7
2) provide fb/gf with some living expenses...they stick to u like glue.
3) Bring then for short cheap trip....they worshipped you, probably let you screw any hole on her body.
4) She bathed and powder herself while waiting for you to come over to spend time with her.
I will happily spend my money on my mistress and get good returns.
I used to go home with my sperm tank full and cannot release...how frustrating ! But now my sperm tank is always empty hehe.
I go home happy nowaday. Not a good solution for all, but it works for me.