[(o)(o) Tuner]

Marriage is a long journey, everyone has to go thru some difficult times including myself. When my first child was born, wife was very inactive and reluctant for sex. The frequency was like twice a month, if I am lucky.

I still remember 1 incident whereby I was so desperate for sex and I couldn't get to sleep. Wife was asleep, so I turn to my computer and watch porn. Wife woke up and saw me, she asked me "這麽晚了你還不睡，你真的那麽需要嗎"? In my heart I was "thinking of course la, which man dun like to fuck"? Before I can even reply and ask her for sex, she went back to the bedroom to sleep. That moment I banged my balls, I was so pissed off.

Those painful days lasted quite long, for almost 6years. Now we have 2 children and wife is a changed woman. She is as horny as before, she initiate sex most of the time and she even told me she had wet dreams at some nites. Now we have sex more frequently and she enjoys as much as I do.

There is no perfection in a marriage and it isn't all about sex. So bros, give yourself more time.