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Originally Posted by tantan1234
She makes more money than me, and the fact woman gets custody.
When she told me she has zero feelings for me, I was so knocked out. To be frank my feelings towards her has gone dwn too.
but instead of feeling relief or happy abt my freedom, i feel one kind.
Lost feelings, maybe just feel wasted why relations become like tat, and the process can be painful. Imagine when see her move out her stuff, and the wedding photos.
I don kw hw I shld feel anymore. But to salvage is also painful, characters cant change, some stuff and words she said already cracked the feelings I had for her.
If I managed to salvaged I kw I will suffer, frankly I kw.
I am at a cross road. Perhaps I shld take wat fate has for me
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Bro, maybe she said in the fit of anger? Making more money doesnt mean will get the custody of the kids. If your kids are able to speak up for u, this will be a plus point. Sorry, am not lawyer so not able to tell you in greater details. But I know in fact that some of my colleagues does have the custody of his son despite the fact that his ex wife earn more than him due to his son said that he wants to be with his father. My wife always tell me that she got no feeling for me so cannot make love but still she is still staying with me and at times care abt me when I am sick or feeling frustrated.
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Originally Posted by joncheong
I agree. Local guys marrying prc girls can be a good combination. Of cos i meant marrying decent prc girls and not those working in ktvs or the skin trade.
From my humble experience, although prc girls can be demanding and they want material satisfaction in life, but they will also make sure they fulfil their duty as a wife in making her husband happy. Perhaps due to upbringing. I once dated a rich shanghainese girl during a work stint there, although she got a temper, at the end of the day she will still be a gf and give you love and sex....
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Bro, not all PRC are good. One of my provider staff actually married a PRC and she did provide sex for him when he need it but she goes out and work in a massage palour and keep asking him for money to buy things back to her hometown and he owes bank a lot of money. In the end, his wife run away from him and went back to China leaving him to clear the debts. I have to say he is blinded by love.