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Hi, not really a newbie here but I've Never sign up an account to read. However some basic intro about myself. I'm pretty young but alr a mum of 2 kiddos. One infant and one toddler. Married with my hubby for 3 years together for about 5 years.

I've been reading -wife and sex- Going through the motion and I realize some hubby is really unhappy with wifey not giving sex.

However I myself have to admit that aft my #2 my sex drive really have a drastic changes especially right now. Maybe due to after giving birth may lower women's libido or plainly because I'm over tired from the stress from taking care of kids.

My question is, Is sex really that important in a marriage? My husband is really high sex drive and i admit that sometimes errr nope i mean everytime he intiate sex whenever i reject he will be unhappy with me and show me the "Sian" face. However one thing I don't understand if we are really really not in the mood for sex how are we suppose to react? Are we suppose to ACT like we want it or simply reject Cause we REALLY don't want it.

I admit, sometimes hubby ask me for sex no mattwr how unwilling i am i will just try my best to entertain him for that good 30mins. However my husband take a loong time to shoot sometimes in purpose to drag the time.


Maybe it only applies to me but I don't understand, who the heck say last longer in sex means he very good in sex? However no complains about my my husband sex skills or what..just plainly curious why is SEX that important. Thanks (: