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Originally Posted by inkthatsmile
I admit, sometimes hubby ask me for sex no mattwr how unwilling i am i will just try my best to entertain him for that good 30mins. However my husband take a loong time to shoot sometimes in purpose to drag the time.
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Just be thankful for what life gives you. You are a mother of two. Figure not as good as before marriage, pussy not as tight as before child birth. He still wants sex with you, that is a blessing. You said you read this forum so you should know a lot of men find sex outside because they don't find their wives attractive after childbirth. Is that a better scenario for you? I can understand why you have no mood for sex but can you understand the consequences of consistently rejecting him?
Be thankful he can last 30 mins. Many other guys out there are 1 min warriors. Longer sex is more enjoyable for guys. Yes the joy from orgasm/ejaculation at the end is the same but during the process of reaching ejaculation, guys also enjoy that. Maybe he wants to drag because he doesn't know when the next sex session will be. So enjoy as much as he can because getting you to agree to sex is so difficult. So the way to make him cum faster might be to reassure him of increased frequency of sex.