[Wizrd]

Originally Posted by freezetheDB

I dont know man, I think a couple really needs to sort out their needs and priority.Sometimes us guys can be tired from overwork and when we want it, it might be just the time our other halves are tired. Give and take abit. I hate to think the day my wife would leave me just coz I suffer from ED or impotence due to old age or illness.

The age old solution is always to DIY or get someone to DIY (via my fave massages) or makan outside. The crux is to be tactical and practise extreme stealth

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Yes bro..communication is key...

It is not just about the act of sex though bro...it is about the willingness to try...if she is not willing to have sex (as in your case of ED in old age as a reverse case...) is she willing to give you HJ, or use toys with you to at least keep you happy? Vice versa...are you willing to do the same for her even though ED has set in? DIY together?? Sharing is caring type of love??

That is more key that just the act of sex...for a partner willing to find ways to fulfil sexual urges of a person...that is all any person can ask for...

Yes bro...of course you can makan outside...but touch wood...let's say kenna caught and now she wants a divorce and half of your assets...will the fact that you makan outside simply because she won't give you sex be acceptable to the judge and her lawyer??

I doubt it bro...and hence...be upfront with a need...it is not a luxury where we can forgo...sex is a natural part of a person and while some people have lower sex drive than others...being married should not mean forcing both persons to go to the lower sexual drive level of a couple...some middle ground must be found...

Some people can handle getting less sex and they are 'happy' to reduce the need for release...others are driven up the wall from a lack of sex...and unless his or her partner is understanding and allow some latitute in the sex department....(be it HJ, finding FB, allow paid sex etc...), something will give...and often times, it is the relationship that breaks...

Not disagreeing with your take bro...but most men get married so that they can get regular sex...if still must DIY and makan outside...why get married?? Most guys makan outside and inside and sideways blantantly before marriage anyway...why get married so that we now have to be stealthy and tactical to do exactly what we have been doing before??


Just my thoughts bro...no offence meant....

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