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Originally Posted by inkthatsmile
Seriously sometimes I do wonder is sex everything in marriage? Sometimes when kids are involve decreasing number of times in sex is expected isnt? I admit I'm still in the young range but this type of stuff isnt really controllable isnt?
And I still don't understand how can man get so frustrated when they dont get sex?
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You don't understand because you are not a man.
There is ONE thing and one thing only that differentiates a man's wife from every other woman, she has sex with him, the rest do not.
If, as a wife, you do NOT have sex with your husband, you then become like all the other women, nothing special.
A man's brain works like this:
She has sex with me then she loves me.
She doesn't have sex with me, she is like all other women.
Its that simple really. The sex keeps your man connected to you, if there is no sex, there is no connection, PERIOD!
Men are NOT like women, we didn't get married for companionship, we already had that with our friends, we get married for a lover. It might be shallow, it might be vain BUT ITS THE TRUTH!
To a man SEX IS EVERYTHING. Its kind of like money, if you have enough, you don't think about it much, if you have none, you're obsessed with it. The only guys who are obsessed with sex are guys who get none. its like starving, its the same thing.
It's just life.
Good for you that you're keeping your connection with your man, good for you.
Cheers,
jim