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Originally Posted by Profetapk
Thanks for sharing..... Definitely your future wife should not know what you have done in the past.....How she can bear it?????
Take care
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Yes, we all know this is a fatal rule of relationships.
NEVER EVER let your partner know of the reckless things you had done. Not in a moment of utter anger, depression and loneliness.
But to me, what is done had been done. There is also a proverb that goes, "No point crying over spilled milk." and the adage, "To err is human, to forgive is divine."
Despite her appearance to
seem to have forgave, it made me wonder from time to time (esp on the times she enjoys bringing up the 2 bad incidents and twists it to give it a new twist) that if she had truly forgiven.
I am no saint. But unfortunately, she's no vestal virgin either. She claims her experiences were from her past bfs..... I haven't really asked her thoroughly but the question lingers.... ie, she lost her virginity at what age under what circumstances? But we all know its a pointless question just to satisfy my personal curiousity. But "curiousity kills the cat".