[tuffcookie]

Hi TS. You sound like a nice chap and I just can't help but post here. Please do not ruin your life by trying to play God and help her. If a woman behaves like this prior to marriage, chances are they will get worse after obtaining the ring. By then, walking away is no longer just a simple turn of your back. I know how difficult it is to get out now but it will be a million times more after you marry her. Please be brave and move on.