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Originally Posted by ffuckoff
My colleagues mentioned to me about this thread in this forum recently and told me that many Singaporean men are complaining of not getting enough sex from their wives. I decided to register for an account and check out the truth for myself.
Since this is a commercial sex forum, it naturally draws on like-minded men to visit the site.
In a way this forum is a good platform for many sexually-deprived men to voice out their frustrations and those men who are facing or have faced similar problems naturally will inevitably unite as one. Like the saying goes: "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so this is understandable.
As far as I can see, those men who have flocked together with the same feathers have already done serious damage in the relationships with their wives and instead of introspecting, many are just pointing the fingers unfairly at their wives. To these men who are not getting sex with your wives, don't just point the fingers at your wives. It is mutual.
By ranting your sexual frustrations here, your sexual problem back home is still unresolved. Some even put up the bravado and dished out your purported "wisdoms" but I suspect that in real-life at home, you are unable to confront your relationship problem head-on and blame it all on your wife only. Some may not even have the resolve to put your relationship problem right in the first place.
The problem with such a forum is that it can provide a platform for like-minded people to congregate and eventually start forming an unfair view of certain issues and without you realizing it, everyone suddenly believes that this is the fact.
As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.
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what a pathetic defense and shallow view.
Can you speak for all the women and the hurt men? Do your lady friends tell you the truth or half truths like a lot of women do? here the men speak freely and openly
You have your forums, and men have theirs- whats your point?
withholding intimacy is something a woman should do? what were your vows when you were married?
Look at all the hurt feelings here, and how the men have tried? Its written in ALL 66 pages of the forum
How the man tried, talking, try to initial romance, plan trips, going for counseling...ARE YOU BLIND???? You are saying the man doesn't want to confront or try? Or blame his wife? what is the wife doing? any of the above? no- they are giving excuses, half baked reasons, and seriously half baked love.
So when your man leave don't go crying foul play?
which man, women, baby, child, human, animal does not want to be loved and feel intimacy?
the fact is the women now don't know their place, as we can see from your post.
Good luck with you sad views, that's why the divorce rates are so high and adultery rates for men and women are overwhelming.
You don't see us men go to women's forums and start berating women for not giving sex, being intimate with their husbands? trying to teach them the "real value of life" or preach as if we are right? we are in our own forum talking to guys who experience the same thing.
See? that's why women just don't get it? you are the best example....
And yes, don't say women are angels, women who give sex in the line of work, betraying their husband, children, cheating as per the recent cases, says it all.
You say you are happy? try not giving your man love, intimacy, care, try saying to him, hurry up and cum, or I don't want to foreplay, just get on with it, or make him feel like a beggar when he wants to have sex, lets see how long you are happily married, and how long he will wait for his wife's heart to change.
I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men
You cant make that claim, you cant speak for men, Singaporean or any man for that matter. You are just like the women who are withholding intimacy or giving it out like its a pain to give, and the road down the future is the same- relationship dies.
You should follow the nick you chose....its apt.