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Originally Posted by ffuckoff
My colleagues mentioned to me about this thread in this forum recently and told me that many Singaporean men are complaining of not getting enough sex from their wives. I decided to register for an account and check out the truth for myself.
Since this is a commercial sex forum, it naturally draws on like-minded men to visit the site.
In a way this forum is a good platform for many sexually-deprived men to voice out their frustrations and those men who are facing or have faced similar problems naturally will inevitably unite as one. Like the saying goes: "Birds of the same feathers flock together" so this is understandable.
As far as I can see, those men who have flocked together with the same feathers have already done serious damage in the relationships with their wives and instead of introspecting, many are just pointing the fingers unfairly at their wives. To these men who are not getting sex with your wives, don't just point the fingers at your wives. It is mutual.
By ranting your sexual frustrations here, your sexual problem back home is still unresolved. Some even put up the bravado and dished out your purported "wisdoms" but I suspect that in real-life at home, you are unable to confront your relationship problem head-on and blame it all on your wife only. Some may not even have the resolve to put your relationship problem right in the first place.
The problem with such a forum is that it can provide a platform for like-minded people to congregate and eventually start forming an unfair view of certain issues and without you realizing it, everyone suddenly believes that this is the fact.
As a happily-married woman and with many happily-married friends, I want to say that the views of the many in this forum does not represent the all of the Singaporean men. My husband is sitting beside me while I am typing out this message so he does not represent the majority here.
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yes, yes, yes....blah, blah, blah, you have the penis, its you're fault, blah, blah, blah. "I'm happily married so all women are like me and you have the penis so its your fault", blah, blah, blah.....
Sis, put a cork in it. You sound like a Cosmo magazine from the states. All the pap you spewed about is boiler plate feminest dirge.
So sis, if you're so smart, why don't you talk like a counselor? Because they don't spew the feminest garbage that you just did they are blunt and honest because they are dealing with real life, not a chat board.
If your wife is not having sex with you and you go to councelling, the counselour will calmly adress the wife with the question, "What's wrong?". She will NOT tell the husband he's a pervert for wanting sex. Of course he wants sex, he has a pulse, what do you expect? Did your mother not have this little talk with you? And under the law and EVERY culture on earth, its wife's responsibility. Its not optional, ITS A REQUIREMENT!
So sis, in spite of your Feminist bend on all this, primarily that "Sex is Optional" in a marriage, in Singapore "refusal to engage in sexual relations with your spouse without a valid reason is grounds for divorce", period, full stop, chapter and verse, done.
Now, for Catholics, its even better. When you marry your body belongs to your spouse, refusal to surrender your body to your spouse is a mortal sin, PERIOD! I preferred the old catholic marriage vows to the new ones...."With my body I thee worship..." Straight to the point, lovely, kinds of romantic even. But even romance has responsibility and obligation.
No sex, no kids no society no future. Fairly simple sis.
Sorry, i call bullshit on everything you wrote.
Cheers and you have a wonderful day,
Jim