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Old 29-06-2013, 08:25 PM
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Re: My Story.... And I hope bros will not make the same mistake as me.....

I don't quite understand how you are loving her?

You have pointed her bad points so far in the whole thread, and you couldn't name her good points in this thread. If there is no good points about her, and you THINK you love her, I think you are trying to play GOD trying to salvage and change her (GOD is when you change, but DOG is when you fail which I think 99% likelihood)

If this is the case, I think you should stop all these BS, and even forget about the marriage prep course. If you can't talk sense to her now and you expect 3rd parties to talk to her and drill sense to her, I can see you are heading for real SHIT. Imagine, in near future, both of you quarrel, and you can't appease her, are you going to get the 3rd parties to come and help? And how many times do you think you need the 3rd parties?

My advice is to CUT LOSS now ( both time and money). Bang table and tell her straight in the face, you are OUT. Then move on.

I am not going to pray for you should you stay with this gf, cause 自做孽,不可活。
I will pray for you to have a better gf, you cut loss NOW and move on.
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