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Originally Posted by ydgduo
Cheers foksak3n. Did not know and understand you like bdsm too.
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No worries. Yes, I try to eat, live and breathe BDSM with my partner all the time, but I can tell you it is not easy. Having been an active practitioner of BDSM for quite a while, I am still learning myself every day, be it new experiences, new people I meet, new things I discover and read about.
I think that we all have our own preferences and limits when it comes to BDSM. My opinion is that a good Dominant (lifestyle or professional alike) is one that will make it a point to understand their submissives' preferences/limits and work with them to heighten the whole experience. It is actually always about the submissive, even though on the surface we see BDSM as the subs serving the Doms.
Long story short - We are all not experts and there is no one size fits all in BDSM. Do what you like, look out for what you like, don't impose your views on others - there is no absolute right or wrong (so long as we're all safe, sane and consensual).