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Originally Posted by forsak3n
IMO, I don't think ydgduo is being disparaging with his comments. In fact, I think what he's trying to say is that the locals need to up their game if they want to stay competitive in the market today. For crying out loud, he even offers a suggestion for the locals to tag along with a paying customer and learn from the Japs. So, please tell me how is that being "mean and hush (harsh?)".
I fully agree with ydgduo that BDSM is multi faceted, and not just about punishment. As we are all unique individuals, we understandably enjoy different aspects of BDSM. When I first got to know Luna, I gathered that she did not enjoy BDSM at all; today, she's a Pro-Domme and seems to be rather popular. So, instead of shielding them, I think a little bit of constructive criticism can go a long way to doing them good.
Everyone's "brand" of BDSM differs. Instead of imposing your views and ideas on someone, I think the community (being small as it already is), should instead be accepting to these differences. Why play a game of slash and divide, when we are all under the same umbrella?
Just my 2 cents worth. Cheers.
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I beg to differ on the imposing of view and ideas. It's a subjective phrase. Any spoken or written sentences can be taken as it as that depending on the reader interpretation.
My post with regards to bro ydgduo "yelling out loud" to the local to find a male customer, a man to visit jap for lessons, and declared that he is not happy with the skill level of local service providers (imposing of views?). IMO, that's unnecessary. Punters know and will walked away if the service provider are not up to par. This alone would eventually pushed the service provider to up their ante if they want to stay in the trade.
That say, I do agreed that we all have our own preferences, limits and the needs to have gracefulness to accept differences. Lets move on.
Cheers