Hey everyone an American bro here (hope it's ok to call my self a bro

). Love this thread. I'm residing in the Philippines and find the lack of femdom options to be a real problem. I've been to Thailand and had a session at Midori's but I've been a fan on Japan Femdom for a really long time and I think I'm ready to grow some balls and really go for it.
My question to you all here is:
1) If I go to La Siora will I really find true Japan Femdom? I really want to be scared and have a domme really beat me up, break me down, humiliate and *** me. I want the forced mouth open gags to drink piss and try to take shit (must be forced). I'm looking for the real leather outfit, boots, bullwhip. Really looking for someone I can provide the interests to before hand and they just run with it with no mercy. I hate sessions where they just keep asking if you are OK, or they don't really live up to what I see in Japan. I've played a bunch in the US, and once at Midori in Thailand, but I need Japan experience.
If not there, where ?
Does this really exist?
2) Should I give Singapore a try? There is nothing going on here in PH.
Thanks bros. Hope to be more involved here soon.