The reason i post here is because its english, anonymous, and the bigger forums ive seen with bros that have vn wife & exp except the vn forums.
I read some of you bros are skeptical, and i understand, cause im also skeptical myself and have thought about the worst scenarios myself.
What i feel i know is that she is sincere, at least when it comes to loving me(bear with me).
Im a VK, living in nr1 HDI country, young, not ugly(since a bro dont believe ill change my wording), have a prominent stable future, good probable pay when out of college(even low job here earn 4k+ usd/per person/month easily/normally), genuinely sincere about the rela, and well not so much like the player douches in vn mostly..
I dont want to disclose to much as its the internet and could haunt you forever..
You can say we hit each other up, and not only 1way. She work all day in the citys biggest massage, where hanky panky is forbidden except the usual happys. She told me she sometimes/occasionally(havent asked limit) do escort if someone offer her alot(havent asked limit). Clearly that dont really classify as fulltime WL where you can just spread legs and get some easy $ as shes mostly occupied throughout the day. And her financial problems should still be prevalent as she just came here to work 3months ago..
I have also offered her money like 300/500usd a month to help her out with her family debts but she flat out rejects(!). She also KNOW i WONT marry before im finished in college, which is 1.5-2years from now. So im pretty sure she is not out to scam me CASH, and i would not, could not give her alot of cash either out of caution..
I know she dreams of a future with me, a good future, but who doesnt? women.. vn.. debts.. family.. possibility of dream..
Its a long way there, and who knows how the future will be??.. love.. is fragile, for both, and thats the reason im trying to take steps to secure it..
im a chicken when it comes to love and complexity of vn culture, but do find myself rational and not stupid enough to fall for KCgame(ejecting at the first notion of restlessness like with the first girl.)..
I do thank the bros who advise me to seek better, normal VB, but when you have feelings.. I do know some girls, hot girls, party girls in vn but mostly i just hang out and party with them and didnt hit on them.. except 1 which hit&score(irrelevant story).. Honestly speaking i just wanted to bang some of them, but theres no more feeling than that, and after i met This one i didnt try anymore because i respect her feelings and our rela..
What i would like bros here to advise me on is, how can i be a part of her life and melt the icewall she shield herself with? what can i say so i can make her open up to me?
i know you bros have alot of inside, personal knowledge and game, and its the very reason i went and posted here to ask for help..
Thank you for taking the time to read and please give some feedback
